Question:
Sociology project: What's your biggest secret?
2013-05-23 05:36:54 UTC
HELP, I got assigned this sociology project and its: 'in general, what is something most people would be ashamed of?" I re-worded it a little but that's the main objective... So I thought i would ask on here since none of us know each other! Pleaseeeeee help by answering this question, "what's your biggest secret?"

Thanks in advance, I have no idea how else I'm supposed to write this essay without other inputs!
Four answers:
Rederig
2013-05-26 20:50:38 UTC
I will probably regret telling this, but here goes. The guy I got involved with, I met in Europe at 21, and was from the states, so we came back to the states to live. I found out after two years when I graduated from college he had a criminal record for being with under aged kid (17 year old). I could never tell anyone he had a federal offense against him and spent time in prison, my family would have had a cow, its bad enough I was gay. A year latter I found out he was not using his real name,he had a son who was killed in a bus bombing in Israel, his wife had cancer, forbid there son from going on the trip, after the son died she never spoke to him again till the day she died, that's why he was in Europe. His wife turned out to be my moms sister (a family out cast) so that basically makes him my uncle by marriage, and luckily the family had never met him. We were together for 35 years and I never told anyone, until he died, and then I only told his good friend that I married legally after he passed away, and now you know.
melloyello
2013-05-23 07:10:48 UTC
I have a good one. Body hair. Ppl nowadays r ashamed of body hair. Even some guys decide they want to shave their legs out of embarrassment. Ive had guy ask me if they should and i tell them no as they r a guy and body hair is okay.



Im a girl and my big secret is that i shave practically everything. Stomach to back up my bra line. Arms from forearm to upper arm up to below my shoulder. Hair on back of hand and foot. Legs even my thighs.



My hair is very thick and dark. Though not everything i shave is thick and dark, but its thick enough to where u can notice it. Especially when i go swimming and the water drips down my body. It streams down the hair making it more noticeable.



Sometimes i wonder if it is rlly as bad as i think it is. But i keep remembering back to when i was younger, i stopped shaving my back and stomach one summer, went swimming, i came up for air and my cousin made a commemt about how i need to shave my back.



And that whole 'it grows back thicker and darker after u shave it' is a lie. It just feels thicker bc the thin tip isnt there bc of the way the razor cuts it. Its exactly the same thickness, just without a thinned tip. I have thought about waxing so it grows with a thin tip so its less irritating.



Also, i often wonder if getting out in the sun more would lighten the color. But it will never change the thickness. So i would still have to shave before i go swimmimg.
wishnuwelltoo
2013-05-26 17:37:49 UTC
I don't make my life a secret. It is the horror of my life that enables me to help so many people. I am very vocal about the abuse in my life from being molested and raped to being beaten and abused as a child to living in a battered women's shelter and being homeless. I have had a very hard and violent life and it doesn't help other people if people keep secrets and make things taboo. I am also very vocal about mental illness from my Complex PTSD to my traumatic amnesia. I am not ashamed of my life, as hard as it is to be me, I am exactly who I was meant to be. Some people get a divorce, some get cancer, we all have tribulations but it is our attitude during our troubles that makes the difference. Live your struggle and bloom where you are planted.
Erika
2016-10-04 17:10:49 UTC
game enthusiasts dont have a prepare we are all of us and we are each the place . we dont gown specific way or have any specific society we are ppl in simple terms such as you we in simple terms decide for to interest and interest we can so while your doing all your document undergo in suggestions all of us understand the place you reside lol


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